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April 18, 2013

The benefits of finding out your baby’s sex

Some parents prefer not to know whether they’re having a little boy or a little girl until it’s born. Lots of people love the idea of a surprise, and will specifically request that their sonographer doesn’t tell them the sex of their baby. However, for lots of parents, it’s a much better option to find out which sex they’re expecting, and there are several reasons why this is the case.

Firstly, it can help you out immensely when it comes to buying all your baby gear. When you’re decorating the baby’s room, it means you can steer clear of plain white and stock it up with some baby-friendly colours and toys. It’ll also help your relatives who will be keen to help you pick out babygros, so they will know whether to buy clothes for a girl and a boy.

Secondly, you can start thinking about names. Your baby will live with its name for the rest of its life, so you can start to think about gendered names much sooner so that your baby doesn’t go nameless for the first few weeks of its life. It also means that you can start referring to your baby by name if you wish, and people may like to buy him or her some personalised gifts.

Another good reason to find out your baby’s sex at the 3d scan is so that you can alert your doctor of any gender-specific illnesses that run in the family. Some health issues tend to affect one sex more than the other, and knowing this before the birth can help you and the doctors make a plan in case the illness manifests itself in your baby. In the same vein, it may set your mind at ease if you know that your baby is of the unaffected sex.

Lots of parents also find that they feel more connected to their baby if they know whether it’s a boy or a girl. This is because they can start to picture it better in their minds and it can make it all feel more real. If you decide not to find out, it can be difficult to imagine what the baby will be like when it’s born. Knowing the gender can also raise some fun speculation about whether it will inherit the height of the males on the father’s side or the cute little nose of the females on the mother’s side, for example.

Of course, it’s entirely up to each couple whether or not they use the ultrasound scan as a chance to find out which sex their baby is, but there are certainly lots of benefits if you do decide to find out before the birth.

 


Categories: Pregnancy Scans


January 17, 2011

4D Baby Scan

Appointment 4 – Scan 3: First 4D scan – 04.11.10:

Still enjoying the excitement of the scan the day before, we went to Dr. Berral’s clinic in the middle of Marbella full of anticipation at the idea of seeing our baby again but this time on a clearer 4D image.

Dr. Berral speaks perfect English and this put Mike at ease a great deal as he was able to join in the conversation and ask his own questions. After an initial consultation during which we showed Dr. Berral the information, test results and scan details we had had thus far we had the first of what would be truly amazing scan experiences! We quickly realised that Dr. Berral was more accustomed to dealing with English clients and compared to Spanish doctors who tell you pretty much only the answers to your direct questions, he went through everything with us and was constantly talking us through what he could see and where on the screen and was happy to take the time to answer any other related enquiries we had.

As I was just 12 weeks + 4 days at the time and just between Trimester 1 and 2, the scan was to be trans-vaginal. Along with an assistant, Dr. Berral put us both at ease and was clear about what we could expect and what areas of the baby could be assessed at that point. He also said that at some 12 week scans it was possible to determine the sex of the baby! At this point we both said that we would be happy with either a little boy or a little girl and as long as the baby was healthy it made no difference.


What Can You See On A 4D Pregnancy Scan?

Perhaps a little naively, both of us were simply expecting to see a clearer image of our child and to be able to come away with more images and a DVD of our baby moving around inside of me but it was so much more! The scan gave us and told us so much more than we had expected and we both agreed that it was a fantastic experience and wholly worthwhile investment to have the privilege of seeing your growing and developing baby .

There was an extensive range of things that Dr. Berral could tell from a 4D scan at the 12 week stage and at every step would stop to explain what he could see, why it was relevant and to also point certain parts of the scan out to us.
12 week ultrasound image

Gestation, EDD, Foetal Position & Size

Starting with general foetal position and size we were told that the baby’s size was equal to that of a foetus of 12 weeks + 6 days gestation with an expected delivery date of 11.05.10. We had initially thought (based on own dates from the pregnancy calculator using my LMP) that the due date would be the 18.05.10 so suddenly we were a week nearer to having the baby already!

Downs Syndrome Checks

During the scan Dr. Berral examined first the head, highlighting the nasal bones which he said he was checking to see how well they were aligned as this can be a “soft marker”, i.e. potential indicator of a Down’s Syndrome baby. The whole “fetal anatomy survey” section of the report showed a normal skull with intracranial anatomy, normal development of both orbits, nose, upper and lower lips and chin. He was also able to measure the nuchal fold which is the area just behind the neck of the baby and an enlarged area can indicate Down’s Syndrome. Dr. Berral was to measure this 4 times in total to get a realistic average and our baby’s average measurement was well below the potential dangerous levels at between 1.59 and 1.62 which is classified as low risk for aneuploidy.

Spina Bifida Checks

Further down the baby’s body the examination of the spine was normal and Dr. Berral explained that he was looking at the spine to see if the 2 sides were also well aligned and to see if all bones appeared to be in place. Certain missing bones can be indicative of Spina Bifida and we were glad to hear that the baby’s spine looked perfectly normal.

Heart, Blood Flow & Other Organs

We were also shown the heart and both atriums and ventricles were pointed out, as was the blood flow to and from the heart which was also healthy and normal. The heartbeat at the time was 162 beats per minute. The stomach bubble was pointed out, as was the bladder and both were said to be healthy and showing signs of liquid inside indicating that the baby was taking in amniotic fluid and expelling it. The kidneys were pointed out on either side and all 4 limbs were pointed out and also measured to show that they were in proportion with the body as well as within the expected limits of a 12 week foetus. I can’t remember the limb lengths myself now but if I ask Mike he has the exact measurements ingrained in his brain and continues to tell everyone how much the baby’s femur has grown since this first 4D scan!


12 week pregnant 3D image

It’s a BOY!

Most excitingly, Dr. Berral told us that at this point in the pregnancy, he was pretty sure we were having a BOY! It was fairly clear on the screen and while we understood it was not possible to confirm 100% as a baby’s genitals can often be swollen during certain stages of pregnancy, looking at the screen we were both happy that we had a potential son to now look forward to!

While he said he would happily go for more 4D baby scans every week, Mike settled for arranging an appointment for a second scan at which different areas of the baby could be assessed. This “20 week anomaly scan” during Trimester 2 could actually be done any time after 18 weeks so Mike arranged it for 15.12.10 when I would be 18 weeks + 3 days pregnant.

Initially our appointment was for 8.30pm that day but after a delayed start we went in at around 9.10pm and didn’t get home until around 10.30pm and we both thought that an investment of 100 euros for a truly thorough appointment, scan images and a 40 min DVD of the entire scan process, was well worth the price and would recommend Dr. Berral to anyone.

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January 5, 2011

Pregnancy Scans Week 12 | Trimester 2

Pregnancy Scans & Hospital Appointments Continued….

Appointment 3 – Scan 2: 12 week scan – 03.11.10:

All geared up for this one, Mike was looking forward to the 12 week ultrasound a great deal and was fairly emotional the first time he saw the baby on the screen. I was intrigued as to what exactly the blood and urine had been tested for and had hoped that Dr. Bazán would be able to explain. As it turns out, at this appointment we saw Dr. Freddy Simon Simon and in the excitement of seeing more of a developing baby on the screen it didn’t occur to me to stop and ask about any specifics of the tests for the vials of blood I had given away. Armed with the results though Dr. Simon said there was nothing out of the ordinary and nothing to worry about on the results.

Dr. Simon didn’t speak much English so I translated the little information we were treated to for Mike. We were told that the size of the baby was in line with expectations of a 12 week old foetus and that it had a healthy heartbeat.

12 week pregnancy scan

Pip at 12 weeks 03.11.10

With the scan over, I was given a further slip of paper to go upstairs from the scan suites to the blood testing area where I had been a couple weeks earlier to have the Down’s Syndrome blood test which is due between week 8 and week 13 + 6 days. Once again, I was told the results would be due the following week.

The whole appointment seemed to go so quickly but it was nonetheless awesome and felt like we had reached a big milestone by sharing the first special moment of having seen our baby on the screen together as parents to be.

Having been seriously impressed with seeing his child for the first time, Mike was eager for more and no sooner had we reached the car, he had called a private clinic in Marbella to arrange a 4D scan for as soon as possible. The Trimester 1 12 week scan pictures were clear enough for us to work out a limb or two but as we wanted to send a scan image to Mike’s mum for her birthday at the end of the month by way of surprising her about the pregnancy, we also wanted clearer images to send her. The first of our 4D baby scans was arranged with Dr. Berral for the following day 04.11.10.

Alana
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